Dating pre op transexual
In my very short experience dating as a trans woman, I've noticed there are so many straight guys who are into trans women, but the majority don't like feeling 'deceived.' As far as I'm concerned, I'm no different than a cis woman, but a lot of straight guys don't see things this way at first, and end up feeling lied to (as unfair and horrible an experience as that might be for us on the receiving end).When they feel this way, they may pull away even if they had originally thought they could date a trans woman.In my heart and soul, I've always been a girl, and once I was able to, I made physical changes to live the way I've always felt inside.I understand if you haven't really come across this in the past, but please know this doesn't change any part of what we've had so far.
Can you give me any suggestion on how to tell him without him freaking out right away? There might be a tiny possibility that he accepts the fact but I don't know. I am scared of getting rejected again I'd say give it more time.
For the next 15 years I was married and divorced twice.